Compatibility Created to Endure May 29, 2009
Nobody can say I’m terribly happy being picky and remain an honest woman. However, I’m not unsatisfied with the reality of life, either. I only bring it up on the blogosphere as an ear-catching personal tidbit introducing what I am about to explain in grand style.
This time last week yours truly was talking to Trisha, thinking of signing up for Great Expectations Dallas. You prolly couldn’t guess that, I type to each of you as a happy member of the singles network. Totally, and I almost don’t believe it myself! It’s great! If you know me at all, perhaps you’re thinkin’, “You got some ’splainin to do, Lucy!”
Here’s how it went down, I noticed these Great Expectations Reviews and liked what I saw. They’re for the serious singles who think dating should mean something.
Because in all honesty I’d never been interested in the ridiculous nightlife ritual my friends and my family so aptly entitled “The Dating Experience.” I faced it more than anyone should. Each night friends ask, “You’re still single? ” and “You should date!”
“Baloney!” I banter right back, without missing a beat. “There’s nothing to date!”
“Whatever doofus,” they level with me. “How would you know, you haven’t seen Friday Night Magic in a year!”
That’s just my sister The One-And-Only hah! Sandy Feldman. She sets the best ideas to my brain 99% of the time. Friends never fail to offer perspective. She made a good point, and I thank her for it.
Coming home to the meaning of this blog entry. As I selected from hundreds of outfits (hah) and desirable, honest singles for my first singles event with Great Expectations, I realized something honest. For the longest time, I hadn’t entertained any emotional great expectations for dating in the adventurous path of being human. Single life has its perks, especially with healthy optimism. Embracing your own great expectations makes a difference for those who believe.
–Monica Davis
